Communication: This is the most important factor in today’s life to attract anyone towards you rather than a girl. If you communication is not well then no one can attracts you or want to talk with you. Moreover, communication is the basic foundation of attracting girls as it tells about your personality and behavior that what kind of person you are.
Respect Yourself: Well, girls are normally attracted to men who know their true self worth and respect themselves. It is an advice to you that the more value you add to yourself the more attraction you would become from a beautiful girl.
Online dating tips: If you are going for online medium, then it is an advice to you that messaging girls online without receiving a response? Remember, your message should be attractive and have a sense that attracts girls towards you. You can also show your regards, care, and understanding for her through online.
Dress up properly: Your dressing and life style can also helps a girl towards you. So, it is an advice to you is dress properly and well-manner that helps a girl to be a great fan of yours.
Confident: This is one of the great dating tips to attract a girl towards you. Besides showing her you’re confident, you can also maintain eye contact while talking to her.
Romantic: Being romantic is one of the basic requirements for attracting a girl. However, the romance element should make the girl feel special and extraordinary rather than portraying you as a leech. Don’t go overboard
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
how to kiss a girl
Learning how to kiss well is a skill that most men have not taken the time to really master.
To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you.
If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you.
Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing.
After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.
Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%.
Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her.
One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention.
People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed.
The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss.
Why is modeling her kiss so potent? One of the first reasons is that she does not consider herself a bad kisser so whatever she is doing must be awesome.
Secondly, people who are like each other "like" each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages
By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss.
She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head.
Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she's putting on your lips.
Just feel into her lips and reflect the same back to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:
There's the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip.
There's the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip.
There's the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.
There's the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted.
The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other.
As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute.
Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it's a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she's doing.
Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other.
Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment.
Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.
If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth.
Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips.
Allow her to start dancing with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.
Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance.
If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper.
There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, "I absolutely love kissing you", or "You are such an incredible woman", or "You are so yummy, I just want to devour you", etc.
These statements when said in your head or out loud will amplify the feelings of passion, desire, and adoration you have for her and she will feel these transferred through the kiss which makes it so much hotter.
This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you'll know what I mean. This is what will allow her to sometimes swoon and have her knees buckle a little bit during the kiss, because you are creating the energy of pure love while mirroring exactly the way she desires to be kissed and more.
To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch. Stroke her face gently as you separate briefly before lightly engaging her lips again.
Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her.
Move your hands in rhythm with the kiss and alternate between various pressures and strokes. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her.
Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures.
Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you're building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time.
Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again.
Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman.
Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss.
The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life.
To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you.
If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you.
Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing.
After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.
Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%.
Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her.
One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention.
People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed.
The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss.
Why is modeling her kiss so potent? One of the first reasons is that she does not consider herself a bad kisser so whatever she is doing must be awesome.
Secondly, people who are like each other "like" each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages
By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss.
She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head.
Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she's putting on your lips.
Just feel into her lips and reflect the same back to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:
There's the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip.
There's the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip.
There's the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.
There's the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted.
The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other.
As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute.
Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it's a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she's doing.
Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other.
Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment.
Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.
If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth.
Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips.
Allow her to start dancing with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.
Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance.
If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper.
There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, "I absolutely love kissing you", or "You are such an incredible woman", or "You are so yummy, I just want to devour you", etc.
These statements when said in your head or out loud will amplify the feelings of passion, desire, and adoration you have for her and she will feel these transferred through the kiss which makes it so much hotter.
This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you'll know what I mean. This is what will allow her to sometimes swoon and have her knees buckle a little bit during the kiss, because you are creating the energy of pure love while mirroring exactly the way she desires to be kissed and more.
To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch. Stroke her face gently as you separate briefly before lightly engaging her lips again.
Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her.
Move your hands in rhythm with the kiss and alternate between various pressures and strokes. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her.
Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures.
Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you're building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time.
Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again.
Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman.
Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss.
The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life.
how to impress a girl
Some men tell me they can’t begin learning how to impress a girl because they’re shy. If you can relate to this, you’re hardly the only one. There are hordes of introverted men who get cold feet when theyíre face to face with girls. They get tongue tied. When I meet some who want to learn how to impress a girl despite their shy nature, I always remind these men that being shy isn’t a handicap . Timidity is a part of your social programming and it can be overcome.
Now, you need to ask yourself: are you using shyness as an excuse? You bet there are men who tell themselves that they’re too shy to learn how to impress a girl and simply give up without trying.
What you probably don’t know is that you can take advantage of your shyness to attract women. A lot of women find shy guys adorable, which tells a lot. Thereís a level of shyness that appeals to women. In fact, your gentle nature could be the thing that sets you apart from the rest of the guys who are trying hard to act macho. Learn how to impress a girl even if youíre the shy type.
How to Impress a Girl – Two Tips for Shy Men
1. Direct the Flow of the Convo
Women get turned off with men who hog the conversation. Itís the reality that most guys havenít come to terms with. But these women dislike men who canít take charge of the conversation even more. So, how do you strike a balance between being too overbearing and letting her talk?
Prod her to talk, but direct the flow of the conversation by asking thought provoking questions. Banter with her. If she says something that sounds like a lot of bull, laugh with her. Tease a girl when she’s going overboard, this reminds her who’s taking charge of the conversation.
When a girl opens up about her interests, several hundred windows of opportunity become available to you. Her stories will also tell of her interests and whether she’s someone you want to spend a weekend with or not.
This style of conversing with a woman builds rapport fast. She will remember you as the guy who completely made her feel at ease talking about herself.
2. Throw a Curve Ball
Showing a side to your personality that she isnít expecting is a great way to build desire. Think about it. A woman has a preconceived notion of who you are and what youíre about , then when she sees a side of you thatís unexpected, she reels in shock.
One of the tools you can use to learn how to impress a girl are magic tricks. The key is to be natural about it, like when you try it while youíre in the middle of a discussion, or when the talk is getting stale. She wonít see it coming, but she will be delighted that she found a gem of a guy she is absolutely attracted to that night.
Now, you need to ask yourself: are you using shyness as an excuse? You bet there are men who tell themselves that they’re too shy to learn how to impress a girl and simply give up without trying.
What you probably don’t know is that you can take advantage of your shyness to attract women. A lot of women find shy guys adorable, which tells a lot. Thereís a level of shyness that appeals to women. In fact, your gentle nature could be the thing that sets you apart from the rest of the guys who are trying hard to act macho. Learn how to impress a girl even if youíre the shy type.
How to Impress a Girl – Two Tips for Shy Men
1. Direct the Flow of the Convo
Women get turned off with men who hog the conversation. Itís the reality that most guys havenít come to terms with. But these women dislike men who canít take charge of the conversation even more. So, how do you strike a balance between being too overbearing and letting her talk?
Prod her to talk, but direct the flow of the conversation by asking thought provoking questions. Banter with her. If she says something that sounds like a lot of bull, laugh with her. Tease a girl when she’s going overboard, this reminds her who’s taking charge of the conversation.
When a girl opens up about her interests, several hundred windows of opportunity become available to you. Her stories will also tell of her interests and whether she’s someone you want to spend a weekend with or not.
This style of conversing with a woman builds rapport fast. She will remember you as the guy who completely made her feel at ease talking about herself.
2. Throw a Curve Ball
Showing a side to your personality that she isnít expecting is a great way to build desire. Think about it. A woman has a preconceived notion of who you are and what youíre about , then when she sees a side of you thatís unexpected, she reels in shock.
One of the tools you can use to learn how to impress a girl are magic tricks. The key is to be natural about it, like when you try it while youíre in the middle of a discussion, or when the talk is getting stale. She wonít see it coming, but she will be delighted that she found a gem of a guy she is absolutely attracted to that night.
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